30/10/21
“Hi Mum, I am very regretful this whole situation could not be resolved in a less stressful manner, it has taken it’s toll on both of us. I am disappointed that all the effort I have put into setting this plant up is now going to waste. I wish we could of come to an agreement. I am happy for Dad to email me further if he would like to so as to not cause you any further stress or you can get back to me on the hot room and the vat when you are capable. I agree we need to put this whole situation behind us for both of our health. I will be over on Monday to remove what we have agreed is mine and to photograph our shared assets for sale. Eddie”
I have complied with their rules and given 3 day written notice. Now the rules have changed. Why? Because there is no way to please them, there is no way to end this. Now they say police are involved, now I can’t enter the property, I need to involve a third person making it harder, I need to enact civil action, there is threats of restraining orders, and I can’t even photograph and inspect the condition of the shared assets. Despite 3 days notice that day is now not convenient. This is how a Sociopath and a Narcissist escalate a situation when things don’t go their way. They are making this as hard and as costly as they can for me.
31/10/21
“Hello Eddie
Further to your email We have consulted the Queensland Police Service who have advised that it is criminal offence for you to enter our property without agreed permission.
They also informed us that you have the right to the agreed items listed in point 1 of your email. They can not be collected by you though they must be collected by a third party (not yourself).
Monday is not a convenient for us. We will grant your third party representative access to the property on Tuesday 2nd November between 9am and 11am.
As for item 2 on your list, we deny that there is any additional jointly owned assets require inspection, nothing has changed since your inventory inspection 2 weeks ago. If you dispute this, you will need to enact civil legal action to prove your case.
With regards to item 3, you have moved containers on our property in the past and are aware of the location of your containers and this can be done without accessing our property. Again, a third party will need to collect and prior approval sought from us.
I re-iterate – you do not have our permission to enter our property of 177 Station Road, Bethania, Forcing your entry will result in police being called and a restraining order taken against you.”
Response
31/10/21
”Hello Dad, I am again giving you prior written notice that I will be entering the property tomorrow for the purpose of
1. Removing property of Elson Apiaries that you have agreed to, 3 IBC’s the pallet jack and the compressor. No other property will be touched.
2. Inspect assets owned jointly by yourself and Elson Apiaries that they are not neglected, none of these assets will be removed on this day.
3. See what is needed for the removal of 3 containers and curtain sider that are the property of Elson Apiaries, as contractors will be needed. I will advise you what is needed as I will not touch any of your property.
I will only attend the shed where equipment is. I wish not to have contact or speck with you or Mum. I advice that a third party be present to insure your interest. I only seek to enter for the purpose of concluding our business and request again that neither you or Mum come into contact with me. I regret that all other avenues to resolve this have failed and that selling our shared assets is the only way to resolve this. Eddie”
More threats of a restraining order. Rules have changed again, I must now bare the cost of a solicitor to retrieve assets they agreed are mine. And again they stop all conversation.
“Hello Eddie We are writing to advise that you are not to enter our property at 177 Station Rd, Bethania. If you attempt to come here on Monday 1st November, 2021 as per your last email communication, or any subsequent date, we will be forced to call the police immediately and ensure a restraining order against you is put in place. As to the property settlement you claim, any further negotiation on this is be through solicitors at your own initiation as our final position on your claim is as per the email dated 29th October, 2021.“
Response
31/10/21
“Hello Dad, no inspection has been done on condition. I am the only one capable of inspection. As I have outline I don’t wish to have contact with either of you. The purpose of my entry to the property is explicated and I have a genuine fear of contact with both of you. I am only taking what you have excepted it mine. There is no need to complicate this simple mater. I will be there tomorrow at 10 am. I will honk my horn so you can open the gate but I will not stop at the house. There is no need to waste police time on something they are going to say go ahead and take it. This has been complicated enough by Mum not being well psychologically, lets not complicate this any further. Eddie“
Now I believe they have contacted the Beenleigh Police. That they have a plan to escalate this even further. Claiming they need protect from conflict and distress. I believe their threat in the last sentence.
1/11/21
“Eddie
Please reread the message sent at 7.36 pm today, follow the contents as advised to avoid any further actions, your third party delegate will be given access to remove the agreed items between 9am and 11am on Tuesday 2/11/21, this is the advice given to us by the Beenleigh Police as protection to avoid any further conflict and distress between you and us . It is in your best interest to adhere to this message.“