There was no reply for 9 days and then…… another email, Why now? The answer comes half way through her email. The police are investigating them for the fraud. She has told them lies and she wants those lies put in writing to show people.
This email is certainly not written as a mother. This is written as a politician, a true Sociopath at work and she has stepped it up a level. With the superficial charm put on display for all to see. You will notice the change in her demeaner as she wants to show this email to say what a good Mother she is. She starts with how bad my condition is and what a good Mother she has been. This is how a Sociopath sets the narrative they want everyone to follow.
Like I said, she screams mental illness and blames me for everything, claims it is why this has escalated. Now the police have contacted them about the fraud she is dumb founded, but I have mentioned the fire in most of my emails.
And now the discussion with Dad over assets is described once as a simple conversation, and again as a minor situation. But she has referred to it 5 times as a serious event. She tells whatever lies suit her at the time.
Plays the victim again, I have done such a cruel, uncaring and hurtful act. I have told the truth about what Mum and Dad have done and are continuing to do. Mum and Dad have pushed me in to a corner with no help from police or family, I am fearful for my safety the more this escalates.
Finishes with another jab at my mental health and how desperately I need help, all to discredit me some more. Then wishes me peace, WHAT?
Written without malice
“Firstly I will answer your latest email as your Mother….
I am devastated that the Eddie I have known for a life time is so desperately in need of caring assistance and I cannot be there to help and support you as I have done in the past. I have spent a week researching your Psychiatric report and relating it to the way you have handled the situation that we are currently in. I now fully understand how and why a simple conversation you had with your father, that normally with further calm discussion, would have been resolved to everyone’s benefit, has escalated. I am however, totally dumbfounded that it has lead to you reporting your Father to the police unjustifiably. The Eddie we knew and loved would never have done such a cruel, uncaring and hurtful act. It is beyond comprehension. It breaks our heart that you believed this was the correct way to handle such a minor situation. Our hope for you is that you receive the care you so desperately need and not continue to use your condition to justify unacceptable behaviour. We wish you peace in your journey to recovery.
Now your business answer to the Asset queries from you dated 3/12/2021.“
Now more lies, not once have I said I don’t want the shipping containers, they have blocked my access to them for 2 months and now it is wet, one is accessible all weather. She knows I have no family to help thanks to her. I do not want to be responsible for moving their business equipment around, nor should I be.
“We have asked you many times to remove the containers (which have been left here for approximately 15 years) and the side tray from our property. You repeatably told us they were of no use to you as they leaked. You are aware that we have never used them and are happy that you are finally taking responsibility to remove them.
Please ask your contractor to call me directly to arrange a time for the removal. Please note that as we are in no condition to provide clear access to the containers and side tray, we ask that you make arrangements for your family, friends or a contractor to do so. A request to us is vital for permission for them to enter on an agreed time and day. You are aware our property holds water after heavy rain and any truck would bog in the present conditions. It will need a week of dry weather to be accessible.“
Plays the victim again and is now crying elder abuse, they are escalating this further. The truth is they are both in better condition than I am. Security cameras, security officer, and my behavior is worrying and untrusty worthy. The only time I have gone near their property is when I asked police permission to do so.
“We would like to advise you that we are seeking Elder Abuse Advise and Support. We now also have 24 hour recorded security cameras installed on the property and dwellings. Also, we have arranged for a Security Officer from Australian Security to be in attendance when requested. You may think this extreme but we don’t know you anymore Eddie. Your behaviour is worrying and nothing like the Eddie we have trusted in the past and love.
Eddie, as stated in previous correspondence, we reiterate that you do not have permission to enter our property at 177 Station Rd, Bethania. Access will be given to suitable person/s to remove the containers, their contents and the side rack only by prior arrangement. The person removing these items should contact me on my mobile to make these arrangements.“
She is now claiming assets that I own 100% and that I have asked permission to remove. This is so I can no longer get help from the police and will have to bare the cost of legal proceedings just to pickup what I own from their property. They have already agreed in the emails that I own more assets.
“We do not agree with the statements in your email 3/12/2021. We have returned the items that was agreed on as being yours. There are no further items of Elson Apiaries on this property (other than the above stated shipping containers and side tray). This is the last email we will be sending on this matter. From this end, the emails sent detailing our financial explanation and the stated amount you owe us still stands as is.“
And true to form, the Sociopath has their say and blocks all communication again. But it is for my health this time.
“For your health and ours, we will be blocking your email address from this point forward. Any further correspondence with us on this matter can be received via a solicitor.“
Mum
Do I believe this is the right way to respond to what has happened, no. The correct way is to make a below market value offer and hope like hell they except it, then get as far away from these people as you can. That didn’t work. I then thought going to police and following their advise would be the right thing to do. That didn’t work. Do I think this page is the right thing to do? I don’t see I have any other options after what they did to my brother and how quick this has escalated for me. I know who they are, they are not normal and I don’t know what they will do next. I believe that everyone knowing who they are, what they are doing, and watching what they do next is my safest option.
For anyone who believes this is a bad thing to do I couldn’t agreed more, it is a horrible thing to do to your son.