Now remember that everything I have asked for is in the emails you have read. There has been no other contact. I have spoken the truth and that is what makes a Sociopath scared. I am not controlled by her anymore. She has carried out her threat and has defamed me to my siblings. Everything said to my sister has come from Mum. I have asked for below market value for assets we share. Now my brothers and sisters don’t want to talk to me, I am out to slander Mum and Dad, I am breaking their hearts, I am causing turmoil in their lives, my recollection is incorrect, I am ruining the peace they deserve, it’s because I have got something wrong with me and I need to get better, and I need to stay away from Mum and Dad. This is how a Sociopath discredits you before you get a chance to speak the truth. The victims are both me and my sibling, we are all suffering at the will of Mum. My email was about my diagnose of Autism and what I have been through.
On the surface it looks like my parents have been wonderful people. But it is missing one key thing. There is no attempt to resolve the issue. Why? This is the effects of the trauma bond. Being conditioned to defend the abuser as this is one of the only ways to get approval from Mum and Dad. Conditioned to complement Mum and Dad to fulfill their ergo. Everything is my fault and her parents are wonderful people. And when I ask for her to help sort this mess out, no more conversation. She can not bare the thought that she might be the one that has to disappoints her parents.
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Emails sent on the 29/10/2021
“Good morning Name Removed, how are you going? Trying to email the family to update everyone on how I am going but I have realised I only have yours and Dads email. Could you send me the rest of the families email addresses please.“
Eddie
“Hey Eddie I have checked with our brothers and sisters and no one wants to give you their email address, especially as we all suspect you will use it as a stage to slander mum and dad. Whilst we all appreciate that you are going through health issues Eddie, we will not be part of any thing that brings further turmoil to mum and dad’s lives. Your recollection of the past is inaccurate – we all lived with them too and none of us see it the way you did. You are breaking their hearts and ruining the peace they deserve at this age. Please get better but please stay away from mum and dad. You have all our phone numbers if you need to get in touch with any one of us.“
Name Removed
Hi Name Removed, I can’t tell you how much that’s hurt to hear that. I am not going to talk about the situation with Mum and Dad with you. I only want to update the family on my health and explain what I have been going through. It would seem as if it a waste of time if that is what people are thinking. I will send what I have written to you and Dads email and I will leave it up to you to decide weather to send it to the rest of the family. You have my permission to do so. Eddie
Hey Eddie
On reading your health issues, my earlier email certainly would hurt. I apologise for the assumption that you would be using your email to defame mum and dad.
It certainly sounds like you have had a tumultuous journey in understanding your behaviour.
I am glad you have support and extremely glad to read you are not using weed at the moment.
If you are so in tune with emotions and understand family is important (as all Elson’s do) why are you attacking mum and dad? None of what you have been through in life excuses what you are attempting to do to them.
Mum and dad are the most amazing and generous people. They are important to us (all your brothers and sisters) and they have supported each of us individually and collectively, and we will do the same in return.
I will forward your email regarding your health issues our brothers and sisters so they are aware.
I do hope you get better Eddie and wish you all the best.
Name Removed
Hi Name Removed, as I said I don’t want to talk about the details of Mum and Dad. But I will say I am not attacking them in any way. I reacted to something Dad said and I have explained that to them. And I am not attempting to do anything to Mum and Dad. No-one in this family has done more to show their appreciation with time, labour and financial support for Mum and Dad than I have. Everything between us has been done through my company and every dollar of every purchase and loan is documented. This is not a mistake by me, trust me I am autistic. I have a problem with communicating and that is it. This is a simple financial matter that will be sorted with our books and at the end I will not be wrong, and it should never have involved anyone but me and Dad. I can not believe it has come to everybody thinking I have done something wrong and no one wanting to communicate with me.
You have experience with bookkeeping and if Mum and Dad allows you you are welcome to sit down with me and sort this out.
Eddie
Now I think my sister is a wonderful person, she has always taken the time to ask me how I am coping with my injury personally. She is a caring person and we have always been able to speak to each other until this email. The trauma bond makes her perpetrate the abuse for the Narcissistic Sociopath. She is unaware she is being used. She is what psychologists refer to as a flying monkey.