This is what Gaslighting looks like
Don’t be fooled by the fake concern, what she is doing here is Gaslighting. Acting like there is something wrong with me asking for payment of assets I own. Trying to convince me I have a head injury and memory lose. I have a neck injury and a specialist report saying I have had no brain damage and she knows this.
She goes on to claim that I know they would never take what is not theirs when Dad had just said that he owns my assets now.
Trying to make me feel indebted to them and exaggerating the loan and saving my house. They owed my business $12,800.00 for nearly 12 months at that time. All that was needed was for them to pay their bill, I had already arranged the rest of the money. It was $7200.00 loan and they are withholding over $50,000 of my assets. Throughout our dealings I have loaned them more money than they have loaned me.
This link explains Gaslighting
https://www.verywellmind.com/is-someone-gaslighting-you-4147470
The last paragraph is an example of Reactive Abuse and how it is used by a Narcissistic Sociopath. It starts up slow here but is referred to in further emails again and again. The yelling was normal behavior for Dad himself.
This link explains Reactive Abuse
https://www.garbo.io/blog/reactive-abuse
Email sent on the 14/10/2021
“Just received your email Eddie, are you ok?? we are very concerned and confused by the content of this email. We are mindful of the severity of the head injuries you sustained and fully understand the memory loss you have told us ,on many occasions, you suffer from, Be assured Eddie we will check our records thoroughly and determine who owes what. As you know first hand we never will take what is not ours, you also know we would always help our children when they need us, we had no hesitation lending you $20,000.00 a few months back when you were going to lose your home, (we did not have the money at that time and went into debt to help you)you thanked us profusely in you message and told us we were the only ones that offered help,and that we saved your home .We we’re happy to help.
Will contact you Eddie once 5 years of records are fully checked and be assured this will reflect who owes what.
Eddie could you please only communicate with us by email or message as I don’t want a repeat of the yelling and shouting that went on yesterday, I am sure you will agree this behaviour does not resolve anything and leads to further hostile behaviour and conflict , take care, love Mum and Dad“