This one is long and it contains a lot of manipulation and coercion, so I will comment in bold between paragraphs. This file was labeled Final Reply To Eddie. Again the favorite tool of the Sociopath, have their say and end the conversation.
29/10/21
“Dear Eddie,
Hope the day finds you well, getting back in touch to clarify the main issue – the extracting machine.
Let me explain in clearer language for you as not to cause further confusion We (Dad and yourself) were paid out on the burnt out machine and an agreed settlement was reached. We (Dad and yourself) brought back the burnt out machine, for $7,000. We (Dad and yourself) paid Allsafe $3,700 to repair it. Both parties paid $5,350 each to purchase this machine. Dad and yourself both kept the rest of the agreed payout. No other machine was purchased.“
This paragraph is more Gaslighting, try’s to convince me that my share of the extraction plant is only worth $5350, despite DJ and SK Elson receiving $41000 from Elson Apiaries pty ltd. Never mentioning that Dad was responsible for burning it, that I did most of the work to bring it back to food grade condition, that it has been used for food grade honey for the last 5 years, and that any normal person would not know it was ever near a fire. It is worth over $60 000.
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“In regards to the hot room, Eddie you made a willing contribution to the hot room and fixtures just like your Dad did when he paid out $125 thousand + for the shed to be built, Your Dad never asked you for a contribution to this cost, though you used our shed for your business at that time, At that particular time you willingly bore the cost of the claimed $11thousand. It should be noted I am still waiting for records from our accountant as I can recall that Dad could have made a contribution also. A lot of unwritten agreements were made at that time, but I have been diligent with all my book work and receipts, so I will be making all future decisions on them .“
How much they have paid for their shed has nothing to do with what I have paid for my Hotroom. I have only claimed the hot room cost $8000, and her accountant won’t have receipts for what I have paid. This is all to sow the seed of doubt and is how Gaslighting works. She actually says “You willingly bore the cost”, there is no more to say, I have paid for it.
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“It is great to hear that the forklift has increased in value again, We will accept $2,000 for it, happy to see you make a tidy profit, the machine will be settled as is. Over the years one would normally expect wear and tear of any machinery – that is why you would have received tax rebates on the depreciation value.“
She has refused to pay for repairs before sale despite using it for 5 years without servicing it. Instead talks about depreciation? ONE would not expect wear and tear on machinery ONE is not using. I have never asked to buy it, I want to sell it. Market value is what we are talking about with sale of assets. This is a container mask Toyota forklift, they are selling for $6000-$8000. This is how a Sociopath changes the subject.
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“Regarding the steel vat Eddie, 2 were sold with the old first plant, 2 were kept, you removed yours from our property some time back and sold it to Carl, As you made us aware at that time that we had sole ownership of the remaining one, further more we don’t have any record of us receiving half the funds from Carl .“
Firstly they were halves in 2 vats now they are claiming they are halves in 4 vats. I have documentation to prove I owned the last 2 vats. She will lie at will not to give an inch and to confuse the situation. Her records don’t show half of the sale because the vat was not theirs to sell.
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“We are happy again to accept your offer of $800.00 to buy out our share of the Gurnnie, this is what our records reflect we paid for it, Just to clear an issue you raised, there was no claim in the Agreed Settlement made on the 25/10/2016 for the gurnie, you are right it didn’t get burnt. The invoice I mentioned is previous correspondence was number 29 dated 2/6/2015 which listed the full cost of the New Plant purchased from Paradise Honey and the associated cost, listed on that was the gurnie and roller and mounted equipment and the amounts paid by both of us , That invoice showed that you had an outstanding balance of $13,973 owing to us, I am sure you would have paid us. Records are being checked. You will recall no dispute was ever mentioned or brought to our attention over the years since nor any claim made against us for the equipment or money.“
She is fully aware I have paid the $13,973. Everything after “you were right” is just confusion to hide the fact that she was wrong. Sociopaths hate to admit they were wrong.
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“Eddie – you are fully aware we have paid you a total of $62,500 some time back this covered the Avant, pallet, and a loan of $7,200 to you, which you have acknowledge you still owe us – please note we would have willingly paid you earlier for the Avant but as you explained it was to your advantage for the money not to appear on your records at that particular time due to a dispute you were transitioning through with Name Removed.“
This is how a sociopath admits they have owed you money for nearly 12 months, with more lies. My separation from my wife was 2/8/2020 and I purchased her shares in Elson Apiaries pty ltd 25/8/2020. My business activities made no difference to my separation. The fact is as she has already said twice, they did not have the money and needed to go into debt to get it.
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“I do have to insist that until this unnecessary and extremely distressing situation is resolved that you please seek prior permission by text or email when you want to remove the property that we ( Mum and Dad) have agreed is yours :
Pallet Jack, IBC’s Honey Tank. Compressor ,Shipping containers and Blue canvas transport trailer.“
Dad has displayed outbursts towards my children with more aggression than I had that day. This is how REACTIVE ABUSE is used by a Sociopath over and over making it sound worse than it was. There are more rules to pickup what I own now.
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“Given what happened during your last visit, we ask that no yelling will take place on your visits. We do not want a repeat of the verbal abuse that we received. It’s no good for your mental health or ours.“
And here it is again.
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“Because of the deterioration of our health we are at the point now where we will be seeking to have a 3rd party present during future visits and until this situation is resolved, just want to defuse any further verbal outbursts Eddie ,you would agree verbal outburst by anyone of us is not the way resolve this issue.“
And here it is again.
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“By way of clarification of your business address, 177 Station Rd ceased to be your place of business some years ago. Given your injury, the fact that you are no longer able to work (for the past 5 years now) and have divested most of your equipment and do not conduct business from our address of 177 Station Road – it is no longer your business address. You have not conducted business from our address for some years and although you are claiming assets on the property, that does not give you unrestricted access to the property. As requested above and in the prior emails, we ask that you do not enter without prior permission. As your letterhead states, your Elson Apiaries business is conducted from Roundridge Rd, Jimboomba.“
I have not asked for unrestricted access. The facts are that if you have assets on someone’s property they must allow you to collect them, police will escort you if needed. Again more manipulation to make it difficult for me to collect my assets.
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“Eddie, this action breaks our hearts but be assured we have your best interests at heart. We want this distressing situation resolved as soon as possible The last thing we want is for you to go backwards in working through your personal issues. We hope that clarifying the equipment issue will relieve your stress levels Eddie greatly
Mum and Dad
Owed by Eddie
loan for house $7,200.00
payout on Gurnie $800.00
payout of Forklift $2,000.00
$10,000.00
Owed by Dad
Payout for burnt out plant $5,350.00
Payout for Moulds $75.00
$5,425.00“
Again I have only ever said we will sell the forklift, I can’t fix it or use it. She has gone out of her way to create confusion on every point. She in no way shows she is trying to resolve this quickly, that she cares for my health or what is best for me. Then at the end she gives me a bill for $5425.00. This is how a Sociopath operates.