At this point I have realised there intentions are to drag this out as long as they possibly can. This is being done to cause me as much cost as possible as they are aware of my financial situation. So I have decided to represent myself in this matter until I require help. As they have blocked my email I have opened another email account just for this matter.
A month went by with no response from them, it has now been 3 and a half months since this matter started. So I send another legal letter explaining how they have not responded to allow the sale of jointly owed assets, that they have claimed ownership of assets solely owned by Elson Apiaries Pty ltd. Included in the email is individual invoices for each asset along with a due date and interest charges for further delays.
Mum and Dad have claimed there is no other assets belonging to Elson Apiaries on the property, apart from shipping containers and curtain sider, this has been done to stop police helping me retrieve company assets. Not only can I prove that the aluminum tray and trailer parts, milk vat and hot water system, 3 phase compressor, pallet racking and hotroom is the sole property of Elson Apiaries but some of my siblings are aware that most of these assets are owed solely by Elson Apiaries.
They are still claiming I am dangerous, delusional and that they are scared of me. If that was true wouldn’t you just return all assets you don’t own and resolve this issue as soon as possible? If you were actually scared, would you be dragging this out any longer than what is necessary. Would you be contacting people who know me telling lies saying police have rang you saying I am dangerous, starting more trouble. Their actions don’t line up with what they are saying. However their actions do line up with this.
WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN LEAVING A NARRCSSIST
. Expect them to lie to you and everyone around you.
. Expect them to smear you to everyone who will listen.
. Expect them to recruit others in abusing you.
. Expect them to provoke a reaction from you to “prove” you are the problem.
. Expect them to claim they are the victims.
. Expect them to accuse you of doing all the horrific things they are doing to you.
. Expect to have no closure and no validation from them.
. Expect for this dynamic to NEVER change.
Maybe people can understand why I have done this page, nearly 48 years of abuse from these people and it is sending me to an early grave. My only chance of happiness is to get Mum and Dad out of my life for good, they will never change and they will never stop. This page holds them accountable for their actions, it takes away the secrets they use to control what people think. If Mum and Dad don’t wish to do the right thing that’s ok, but everyone will know what they do and who they honestly are.
I have recently received a Medico legal report from my psychiatrist that I have been seeing for many years and I quote “There were no apparent signs of hallucinations, delusions, bizarre behaviours, or other indicators of the psychotic process.”. It also denies that there are “Homicidal thoughts or intentions”. Now consider that this Doctor is a highly qualified professional willing to state his medical career on this report. This is proof I am not delusional and I am not dangerous despite Mum and Dad saying this to anyone that will listen. I am not posting this report as it contains a third party. If any of my siblings or friends actually want to talk and see who is telling the truth, I am more than happy to show them this report in its entirety. It is proof that what Mum and Dad are saying about me is lies and slander. Surely some of my siblings have to be starting to realise that what mum and dad ARE saying does not add up. That Mum and Dad are actually doing things that have provoked this situation.
NPD
Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships.
People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. However, by understanding more about narcissistic personality disorder, you can spot the narcissists in your life, protect yourself from their power plays, and establish healthier boundaries.
I don’t think there is many people that have met my farther that would not describe him as; self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. Narcissists also have delusions…… Dad believes he owns assets he has not paid for, he believes he has the right to hold assets he doesn’t own, he believed he has the right to use someone’s equipment without servicing it, he believes it is normal to lie and bad mouth his disabled sons (elder brother as well), he believes it is normal to turn his back on his sons when they are in need of help, he believes that lying will save his reputation.
You don’t get to see the true face of a Narcissist/Sociopath until they are finished with you. And if you work out what they are they will never stop discrediting you. I watched what they did to my elder brother, their son, for some 20 years they ridiculed him at every opportunity to anyone who mentioned his name. He was called crazy, delusional and dangerous and we were all made to live in fear of him too. In 20 years what has he done? His actions could all be explained simply by PTSD caused when anyone defended how Mum and Dad turned their back on him? The way Mum and Dad treated him, and how they are treating me now is not what they thought us about family growing up. Family sticks together in times of need, family are there for each other, always do the right thing by family, never turn your back on family. Now you can understand why I feel so manipulated and used, their words do not line up with their actions.
Both Mum and Dad expected me to pay them out of their half of the extraction equipment when it was thought Dad would stop beekeeping before me, now the shoe is on the other foot what do they do. They stop me from coming to the property, hold assets we shared without paying a cent, hold assets belonging to my company, try to manipulate AND coerce me to sell assets under market value, lie and slander be to my siblings and friends, stop all communication, contact police, threatened me with restraining orders and demand I need a solicitor to contact them. Why? All our communication is in the emails on this page, what is in my emails that would make anyone behave this way let alone parents. The answer is simple, I was not agreeing with what they were doing to me.
Every healthy personality has narcissistic traits and it only becomes a disorder when it interferes with your well-being and the well-being of the people around you. This is the second son Mum and Dad have turned their backs on, this is the second time the whole family has lived in fear for no reason. And for what, what have they achieved involving family in this business matter. Mum and Dad can blame me for writing about what they have done in their life’s but that only shows their true personality, it’s ok not to be a good person in life as long as no one finds out. It is obvious that the way they have handled this matter has affected both their well-being and the well-being of their family yet they can not stop. Again they will blame me for writing about what they are doing but if they just did the right thing I would have nothing to write about.
FRAUD INVESTIGATION
What has happened with the investigation into the fire fraud? I can only assume that Mum and Dad told the police investigating the same lies Mum put in her last email to me. The investigating police have not contacted me for questioning or all of the other people in my statement. Maybe the investigating police are just lazy and not doing their job properly, maybe Dad being an EX police officer puts him in the policemen’s club and that has got him special treatment, maybe Mum being a Federal member of parliament gets her special treatment, or as I would like to believe maybe the police are taking their time and doing a very thorough job with no preferential treatment. Only time will tell. However I do have a medico legal report and it does prove that what was said in their last email about me being delusional and dangerous is lies. If that is what was said to police it is slander. The police should not be taking the word of the very people being reported for the fraud.
Emails
7 January 2022
D & K Elson Trading as DJ and SK Elson By email:
Elson Apiaries Pty ltd v DJ and SK Elson
Dear Mr and Mrs Elson,
This Email is to inform you that SBK Lawyers are no longer representing Elson Apiaries Pty ltd in this matter. Elson Apiaries Pty ltd will be represented by Edward Elson. All further correspondence in this matter should be forwarded to Email: kayelsonanddaveelsonabuse@xxxxxxxxxxx
Yours Faithfully
Edward Elson
31 January 2022
D & K Elson Trading as DJ and SK Elson By email:
Elson Apiaries Pty ltd v DJ and SK Elson
Dear Mr and Mrs Elson,
You have failed to respond to the matter regarding the sale of assets jointly owned by yourself and Elson Apiaries Pty ltd. You have claimed ownership of assets you have not paid for in your email, quote There are no further items of Elson Apiaries on this property (other than the above stated shipping containers and side tray). As you have shown no intention of releasing these assets attached are individual invoices from Elson Apiaries for each item. Also a summary of your account with Elson Apiaries as it stands currently, this is after your credit has been taken into account. Please note that the due date for these invoices is 14/02/2022 and that there is an interest charge for any outstanding invoices after this date. The rate is in line with government agencies and is 7.04% compounded daily.
Email: kayelsonanddaveelsonabuse@xxxxxxxxxxxx
Yours Faithfully
Edward Elson
31 January 2022
D & K ElsonTrading as DJ and SK Elson
By email:
Elson Apiaries Pty ltd v DJ and SK Elson
Dear Mr and Mrs Elson,
Elson Apiaries wishes to start arranging transport for the shipping containers and the curtain sider ASAP however can not start without clear access. Neither Elson Apiaries or its contractors are willing to accept responsibility for property belonging to DJ and SK Elson. Therefore either yourself or your contractors will have to move your property to allow clear access to assets owned by Elson Apiaries ASAP. Please email as soon as each piece is ready for transport so contractors can be booked.
Email: kayelsonanddaveelsonabuse@xxxxxxxxxx.
Yours FaithfullyEdward Elson
